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Okay, so I know that this subject can be a little... AKWARD but someone has to ask the questions around here. And I guess that person is me. So from my understanding men complain they don't like women who aren't natural. Yet they think women who don't shave their body hair are gross? Okay lets stop for a second and think. WHAT?? The saying you cant have your cake and eat it to applies here. But then you have the ones that say "it stops all the bad odors", well if this is the case, shouldn't men shave too? After all, women do have preferences too or does that not matter? To the people saying its "only a masculine thing" to have body hair. If its only masculine then why do feminine women have it? Why does it naturally grow? So is that saying if your hair starts to grow it makes you a man? I feel as if it is gender neutral, everyone has it, it's YOU that makes it masculine. And last of all, to those saying "no man doesn't want to go down on a hairy girl", how would you know what all men think? Some men actually prefer their woman non-shaven. No, we cannot ignore the fact that feminism/porn/unhealthy standards of beauty exist. But, at the same time, women enjoy full bushes. Others just dislike their body hair for whatever reason. But it's a choice, and just like how fuller brows and even beards on men have become more popular in recent years, so has enjoying the natural state of one's genitals. But, some do believe all women should shave, for several reasons. I mean shaving may or may not be apart of good hygiene. I have also been told by a doctor himself that if a woman does not shave her armpits, she will bring in more odor and it will also make the armpits darker. Same goes for other parts of the body. And I stated before some would argue that, women should shave because It's the feminine thing to do. Women are feminine, men are masculine. I mean if you ask me I would tell you its your body do what you want with it BUT if all women stopped shaving completely, who would know the difference anymore? I have my own preference just like anyone else in the world and with that being said, I feel like if you don’t like my hair, then stay away from my vagina.
Tell me how do you feel about this debate? What side are you on?
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A person who needs nothing but the skin they are in to be beautiful to the eye. In my honest opinion, it’s in the way a girl carries herself. How comfortable she is in her own skin, with or without makeup and everything else that makes them "perfectly beautiful". So young girls, teens, and women don’t be pressured or feel unworthy when people demand for “natural beauty” or call you “fake” for wearing makeup. Just flick them off and simply smile. Embrace and love yourself, for true beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, not by what she wears by societies standards but by how she represents her own version of beauty.
One thing for sure, my husband does not love me because I’m just beautiful and beautiful alone, because I know for a fact that there are women out there who look a hell of a lot better than me. However, I will dare to say that I feel beautiful because he loves me. A girl wearing makeup doesn’t make her more fake than the bare-faced girl next to her. You claim to look for “natural or real beauty” but I apologize, not every girl was born beautiful on the outside. You think you’re not superficial, but your quest for a naturally gorgeous girl proves otherwise. Get real and please realize that you’re not making girls feel better about themselves when you tell them you want someone “natural”. In fact, it makes many girls feel bad about themselves. It makes some of them feel as if, if they don't like the girl next door or the "natural model" in some magazine then they will never be good enough. So here's my advice to you all, FORGET WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS BECAUSE IN YOUR OWN WAY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. |